其實，很多男女關係，都是從朋友變成情侶的。

其實，很多男女關係，都是從朋友變成情侶的。
關於變不變成情侶，我喜愛的作家潔塵有過這樣的論調---

「這上不上床的事呢，一般的有這麼幾說，一呢，如果能夠往下走的，還是上了比較好。上了才好確定是不是繼續走。二呢，不能夠往下走的，也還是上了比較好。留個紀念。三呢，往下走但走的不是愛情而是友情那條道的，那就不能上了。上了就麻煩了。男女之間有了肌膚之親，那就輕鬆不了了，也就做不了朋友了。」

所以，像Harry & Sally，有緣，相知的異性，變成情侶，也是在意料中之事。

我特別喜歡Harry在New Year Party上對Sally說的那番話（沒辦法，偶就是在意細小平淡的小幸福），他說

"I love that you get cold when it's seventy one degrees out, I love that it takes you an hour and a half to order a sandwich, I love that you get a little crinkle above your nose when you're looking at me like I'm nuts, I love that after I spend a day with you I can still smell your perfume on my clothes and I love that you are the last person I want to talk to before I go to sleep at night. And it's not because I'm lonely, and it's not because it's New Years Eve. I came here tonight because when you realise you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of the life to start as soon as possible."

是啊，都到這地步了，就讓它發生質的變化吧。