Destiny

如果是若干年前白衣飄飄的年代看，我或許會羨慕這所謂的追尋真愛之旅而不去置疑任何合理性；而今看來，我只是落得一頭霧水，it really doesn』t make any sense to me!

如果真的是一見鍾情，郎有心，妾有意，又為何會聽任電梯的撥弄擦肩而過從此散失於茫茫人海？如果真的是刻骨銘心，又怎會短短幾年，羅敷有夫，使君有婦？又為何要一直等到無名指上套上」MR/MRS not Right」的戒指時才猛然醒悟開始追尋決定落跑？感情不是過家家，而那些週遭無辜的人即便不是他們的soul mate，也不deserve如此的戲弄和傷害。

Yes, life is not merely a series of meaningless accidents or coincidences; Yes, it might be showing us some signs; Yes, if we are to live life in harmony with the universe, we must possess a powerful faith in what the ancients used to call 「fatum」, what we currently refer to as destiny. But, we can』t leave it all to chance, or I should say, we can』t just create the chance so shallowly like that to find out so called destiny.

In the end, I recall what a psychologist said: 「True love is not a feeling by which we are overwhelmed. It is a committed, thoughtful decision.」 Well, based on this statement, I don』t think theirs is true love.