The Unbearable Lightness of Being

有個女人對我說，要不同的經歷，不一樣的生活，於她，這樣才最有意思。

在看生命不能承受之輕。他有傲人的能力，可以擁有各樣女人，足夠的錢。完全無掛牽，隨意走動，從一張床到另一張床。「曾經一次性消失了的生活，像影子一樣沒有份量，也就永遠消失不復回歸了。無論它是否恐怖，是否美麗，是否崇高，它的恐怖、崇高、以及美麗都預定已經死去，沒有任何意義。」提及法國大革命，「正因為他們涉及的那些事不復回歸，於是革命那血的年代只不過變成了文字、理論和研討而已，變得比鴻毛還輕，嚇不了誰。」對普通人來說，大多即便一些輕微的經歷也一同變成某種炫耀的資本。

很多人因安妮寶貝認定自己所追求的也是那種自以為的流浪生活，從一處輾轉到另一處。在那處，沒能夠真正的與大地親近、水乳交融，付之感情，不會像孩子有隨處發現一個蟲子的驚喜，那麼真正的生活過都不算，如果由此演變出的文字、話語與行為也沒有力量在，只能說，Life is so light

She is sensitive，生命於她很重，經常幻覺看到他跟無數女人做愛的場景，只能看，不能說話，要窒息，只能用針扎自己的手來緩解痛苦。當她躺在陌生人的沙發，只是簡單的親吻，褪下內褲，肉體的快感還是一樣的。靈與肉的分離真真切切擺在面前，幻覺終於消失。

極喜歡的cat stevens的一首歌：
if you want to sing out, sing out
And if you want to be free, be free
cause there's a million things to be
You know that there are

And if you want to live high, live high
And if you want to live low, live low
'cause there's a million ways to go
You know that there are

You can do what you want
The opportunity's on
And if you can find a new way
You can do it today
You can make it all true
And you can make it undo
You see ah ah ah
Its easy ah ah ah

You only need to know
Well if you want to say yes, say yes
And if you want to say no, say no
'cause there's a million ways to go

And if you want to be me, be me
And if you want to be you, be you
'cause there's a million things to do
You know that there are

Well, if you want to sing out, sing out
And if you want to be free, be free
'cause there's a million things to be
You know that there are
You know that there are
You know that there are
You know that there are
You know that there are



電影版的生命不能承受之輕，女主角是Juliette Binoche，演過新橋之戀，藍，英國病人，呼嘯山莊等文藝片的女人。