Find your style

這是一部少有的內容為王的電影。什麼？評論演技？人民不需要演技。人民只相信緩慢的英國口音和從句套從句，相信白頭髮，相信紅唇膏，相信彩色長絲巾、銀絲巾扣，絲綢手帕，相信尖領絲綢襯衫和絲絨套裝。有了這些，誰還管演技啊。

You must search inside yourself for what is unique you,when you find it, polish it until it becomes your style. It's no good being a pig farmer for 30 years, looking back and saying, I was meant to be a ballet dancer. By this time, pigs are your style.所以說，這個片子的核心不是討論gay rights，而是在討論一個人的腔調從何而來。不管他是同性戀還是異性戀，Quentin都是個頭路非常清楚的人。而成為同性戀，尋求一個real man永遠不得（ the essence of a real is that he does not fall in love with his own sex）則讓他變得孤獨而清醒。選擇你的型，成為你所標籤的你，承受應有的痛苦。睿智來自於生活的苦澀和逝去年齡，和性傾向沒有關係。不是說成為了同性戀就是時髦和惹人愛憐，建築工人和卡車司機型的gay要多少有多少。

最後用Quentin的語錄共勉: If your happiness is entirely dependent on another's love, you'll never truly be happy. If your love isvaluable to you, it is because you give it. You must be ready to expect nothing in return.Once you accept this, your heart will never broken again. 去愛，去付出而不計較所得，成就更圓滿的自己。   舉報