我們都渴望愛和寬容

經同事推薦，剛看完《瑪莉 and Max》，很精彩！不得不感嘆，艾略特真是太鬼才了！連「計程車倒著開司機會不會退錢？」這樣的問題也能想得出來哈哈。 影片巧妙的展現出了人生中的許多困惑並且進行了精彩的解答。非常受益。 其中，Max最後在原諒瑪莉的信中說的話，通俗易懂且精闢入里：
「The reason I forgive you is because you are not perfect. You are imperfect, and so am I. All humans are imperfect, even the man outside my apartment who litters. When I was young, I wanted to be anybody but myself. Dr Bernard Hazelhof said if I was on a desert island then I would have to get used to my own company – just me and the coconuts. He said I would have to accept myself, my warts and all, and that we don』t get to choose our warts. They are a part of us and we have to live with them. We can, however, choose our friends and I glad I have chosen you. " 句句直入我心，溫暖又深刻。

我想在每個人的生命中，朋友是必不可缺的，然而朋友不是自己的複製品，都會有自己的個性和想法、優點和缺點。 同朋友的相處中也必不可少的會有些摩擦，所以很多時候我們真的需要理性的去看待和解決這些問題，寬容對方同時也寬容自己。

人內心其實都充滿著對愛和寬容的渴望。