Emontionally damaged

預告片剪的不錯，拖到今天才看完全篇。笑料和配角挺出彩的，女主角也不錯，Justin只能說是中規中矩。

沒有一般chick-flick的俗套，倒是反應了當今男女關係的些許真實面。同志圈的情形如何，這裡不敢妄加評斷。

I've been thinking about this question for a long long time. What makes a "successful" relationship? Or does such thing actually exist? Some people say "don't give it away", otherwise men will run away as soon as they put on their pants. Some say "just be yourself and enjoy the moment", but we girls can't help overthinking. That's in our blood.

Could sex be a casual thing? Could we really enjoy the sex and be emontionally unattached? What are we after sleeping together? Why on earth girls have to chain down men and be responsible for developing relationships?

How could you tell which one is sincere and which one is just trying to get into your pants before actually dropping them? Or maybe men themselves don't even have the answer what so ever. All romance starts with the physical attraction or so-called chemistry, for us non-polatonic sort at least. The morning after is awkward. Both sides need some time. One thing I know is that do not push it, be patient and see how it goes. It is hard indeed, but relationship is after all a self-control game, isn't it?

Based on 吉米's theory, I am emotionally damaged as well, cause I still believe there will be prince charming waiting for me some where. Before he shows up, I will have to take care of my own sexual and emotional needs. I'm not saying sleeping around, of course.