Love embedded in sex

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片子的順序混亂，現實、回憶、男主的想像，交替上演。

法國的浪蕩精神，sex和love的conflict，放任的慾望。肉體的慾望應該被放任，還是被克制？叔本華說，生命意志是人類痛苦的本原。生命意志產生慾求，而每一次慾求的滿足、結束都必然一個新的慾求的起點，導致慾求的循環不止。片中的男女積極地滿足自己的肉體慾望，帶來的卻是爭吵和各種麻煩。

片中警察的話特別哲理。:
「In France, get your American feeling about possession, of ownership, of war, of violence. Try to feel different. What's wrong about going to a club and fucking all the women because you know you will fuck all the women in your life.

然後就慫恿男主帶女主一起去sex club:
But you will fuck all the women in your life in the back. Here (in France) you do it with her. You develop your confidence, your trust. I'm sure you will like it. They are gorgeous women, beautiful women. It's clean. It's nice. There's music.

然後討論了sex, love and life balance:
I live my sexuality in a good way. I will relax, calm and balance. I don't have the feeling you have. I don't beat people. And that's probably the most beautiful thing you can do with your girlfriend. Just to know that she has other desires, and you often have other desires. Bring her. She would enjoy watching you fuck another woman, as long as she knows you come back with her.

然後他們真的就去了。去完又吵架，然後兩個人又做愛，又和好。

那個警察說的話也是我所理解的法國精神的一部份。不能說這裡所有人都這麼想，但是法國人裡持這種想法的人的比例和別的地方相比應該是遙遙領先的：不要試圖去過於控制的自己的慾望，去享受生活，做你想做的。

那麼導演想質問的一個問題大概就是：怎麼平衡sex desire和love sustainability了。片中的男主女主很積極的去滿足自己的sex desire，玩threesome，去sex club，cheating. 慾望得到了滿足了，之後又不得不面對接連不斷的問題，直到第三者懷上男主的孩子。沉溺於慾望讓他們彼此不再有正面的影響，sex life become all the love life，他們愛，卻愛得很單薄。

五星給畫面質感，配樂，所有精細的製作，美艷的女主，和男女主美好的肉體。