What is the life look like

It stroke a cord in me and I was crying very hard. what is the life look like? When girls hit the certain age, like 30, the pressure of trying to get promotion, the anxiety of getting married, the guilty feeling of not being able to look after parents would all emerge at the same time. When all of these become a daily issue and attacks you constantly,How desperate the females can be by seemingly looked just fine,?part of me feels sorry for the character, and there is a bigger part of me worries that this is gonna be my dilemma someday