the fault in our stars

1. ——They don』t actually hurt you unless you light them.
——I 『ve never lit one.
——It’s a metaphor,see?
——You put the thing that does the killing right between your teeth, but you never give it the power to kill you. A metaphor.

就像我給你一把沒有上膛的槍，我彷彿是把命運交給了你，但其實它永遠把握在我自己的手裡

2. It was a privilege, though, wasn』t it? To love him.
Gives you an idea how we feel about you.

他人所存在的意義，正是讓我們自身感受到他人的所作所為給我們帶來的感受也正是我們自身的所作所為帶給他人的感受。換句話說，他人存在的意義也正是加強了我們自身對自己的感受.

3. If you want the rainbow, you have to deal with the rain.

4. Pain demands to be felt

5. You know, sometimes people don』t understand the promises that they』re making when they make them